So, compare O'Connor's Lucynell (Senior)'s comments (abridged): ""You want you an innocent woman, don't you? [...] One that can't talk," she continued, "can't sass you back or use foul language. That's the kind for you to have." (1955)
With Azar Nafisi's quote from Reading Lolita in Tehran (She's deliberately misquoting Jane Austen here):
“It is a truth universally acknowledged that a Muslim man, regardless of his fortune, must be in want of a nine-year-old virgin wife.” (2008)
Which is to say... of course, that a good WOMAN must be so hard to find.
Sigh.